If any of you are in need of a binder but dont have a lot of money:
aliexpress.com has binders for around $5
Those binders don’t look like they expand at all. I would be really wary of that. You need something stretchy/elastic so that you have room to breathe, otherwise you could seriously hurt yourself.
I would personally recommend this binder. It’s more expensive, but still pretty affordable, and it has elastic in it.
aliexpress is also notorious for shit quality all around. the majority of the shops are terrible and sometimes won’t even send you your order and you can’t get your money back. don’t do this to yourself no matter how desperate you are. you are better than this.
DO NOT EVER ARRANGE TO MEET SOMEONE IRL WHO IS FROM FLORIDA
john just told me he won an ebay bid for a pair of light blue oxford high heels
he had no use for those but here we are
also im so envious of her because she can walk in high heels like that with ease like what the heck. how are you more of a girl than i am.
thru-3rd-impact actually once made a post about how fat girls shouldnt wear lolita, they called them "fatty-chans", and they said that horror stories about fat girls buying lolita dresses + stretching the fabric were true.. i dont have a link unfortunately but I unfollowed immediately : (
holy shit that’s disgusting i’m glad they’re not following me anymore then
lmao no, i said that they shouldn’t buy clothes that obviously dont fucking fit them. im fat and wear lolita but i buy dresses that will fit me. dresses that are either built for bigger girls by default, or will stretch properly to fit my larger bust/waist (full back shirring, full shirring, high-waisted, etc). a lot of girls will buy whatever dress regardless of it’s construction (partial or no shirring, unflattering cuts for plus sized girls, etc) and then fuck up the dresses and try to resell them in poor condition. like oh no, how DARE i tell people in a fashion-based community to actually wear clothing that fits them. im so terrible. bye haha you know nothing about lolita.